Being a misfit is always considered a bad thing when really, its one of the greatest, most special things to be. When you think that you don't belong or that things are hopeless, amazing things could happen. Lidia Yuknavitch was in rehab, had a stillborn , sent to jail a couple times, and was homeless for a while and yet when she visited New York City, there were dozens of opportunities to explore the city and see famous people. She was even offered representation by a book company. A lot of things can happen when you don't fit in with the norm. Dreams could come true even when you don't think you deserve it.